I have been asked so many times, "how is it with 3? Is it hard"
My answer always is "no its not hard just different"...today my answer was different - YES IT IS HARD! Don't get me wrong I do love it but dang I am getting a run for my money. I am so thankful that I really do believe I have wonderful, sweet, precious children - however they are 6 months, 2 and 3 and they are all busy all the time! They always need to be doing something. Hank - is he sitting up enough, when did he eat last, does he need to sleep, bouncer, jumper etc, have I told him I love him so much, have I cooed with him, snuggled him?. Lola & Lucy - have I spent enough time with each of them, did she eat her entire meal, did I comment on how much I liked her picture, did I get snuggle time, did I tell her how much I love her, does she know how important she is, have I read her a book, did I just stop to enjoy her? So many things us moms think about.
I have tried the whole "quite time thing" that just doesn't fly. Not only does it not fly but there are major fits when I suggest it. Lucy has given up her nap. I have tried in every way to get her to rest in her room and I have lost the battle. I have tried many different bribes and nothing works. I am a huge believer in sleep but I also have become a huge believer in if the fight is not worth fighting then let it go. The truth is she is great without a nap doesn't throw a fit and is pleasant so the only reason I press the subject is so I can get a little quite time myself and possibly if I am lucky some uninterrupted work complete. Lola and Hank nap at different times and I am really working on trying to get them on the same schedule. Anyway, tonight I began to laugh oh and pray I could gain more patience. I had decided to take all 3 kids to the park - we walked I had the double stroller and Hank in the baby Bjorn, we walked all the way to the park hills and all which was not an easy task and as soon as we got there - Lucy needed to use the potty. I begged her to go behind the tree but Lucy being the lady she is - refused (which I guess I am proud)...so we had no choice strolled all the way home. When we got home I started dinner and was feeding hank, holding Lola while Lucy was telling me a scary story that I wasn't reacting the right way to - so she ended up in tears, I then put Lola down who ended up in tears and that meant I stopped feeding Hank so he too was in tears. I think I was about .3 seconds away from crying as well. I don't like to do it but I opted for a babysitter Mr. TV - and put on noodle and doodle and finished feeding Hank and dinner. I was so thankful especially today to see sweet Adam's face walk through the front door - eat dinner with us and take care of the kids the rest of the night. This tired mom needed a break.
I know many of you can also relate and know that I am madly in love with my children and wouldn't change a thing but that certainly doesn't change the fact that some days are just plain and simply HARD!